By: Dr. Steven K. Parker
· What is patience?
· What does impatience look like? How does impatience impact our life?
Hear:
But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. (Galatians 5:16-26)
Pause:
· If the fruit of the Spirit that Paul lists are a normal part of life when we live in God’s kingdom, what does that say about patience?
· If we grow in the Spirit, we will grow in patience, but how do we grow in God’s Spirit in a way that produces patience?
Reflection:
There’s a lot about the circumstance we find ourselves in right now that’s unsettled. We don’t know when we’ll be able to resume our in-person worship services. We now know that in-person instruction won’t begin in Hidalgo County until, at least, the end of September and we’re not really sure what our kids’ online instruction will look like. Will our youth be able to compete in extracurricular activities like sports or band? Your guess is as good as mine. Beyond those considerations, we don’t know what the long-term impact of this pandemic will be on the economy and the political landscape of our nation. In the midst of all this uncertainty, we can get really frustrated or we can patiently seek the face of God. We can get really worked up about all this ambiguity or we can trust God to guide us through the ambiguity. Either way we’re going to have to wait for things to play out, but the seeking, trusting response will probably produce a much more positive result in us and for the people around us. I have to admit that I have tried it both ways. I have days when I get very frustrated and anxious about all this ambiguity, but the days when I have been able to find patience by making peace with the uncertainty of this season have been a sweet time of re-connecting with my family, engaging God’s word, praying for all of you, and enjoying time with our dog, cat, goats, and rabbits.
We can and we should be politically active. We live in a place where we are blessed to be able to have and express our own opinions and that’s a good thing, particularly when we can express ourselves in a way that reflects the grace of Jesus. But, the truth remains, that no matter how much we fret, what’s happening around us is likely going to be what it is going to be. That’s an important lesson to sit with beyond this pandemic, because life is not always going to be accommodating. Difficult people and circumstances are always going to be a part of our days. Those circumstances will get the better of us apart from the Spirit of God, but when we grow in God’s Spirit we have the tools we need to endure anything because the Fruit of the Spirit is patience; and such patience is the norm of life in the kingdom of God.
The patience we need right now is the byproduct of a life lived into the Spirit of God. That means we can’t achieve patience by trying to be more patient. We achieve patience by slowing down and letting the Spirit of God work in us. As we do that, we can begin to pay attention to the number of times we say the word “hurry,” because we cannot be patient and in a hurry at the same time. When we catch ourselves about to say the word hurry, it might be a good discipline to meditate on the phrase, “the fruit of the spirit is patience.” We might even need to repeat that to ourselves out loud to make sure we get the point.
Many of us are learning, the hard way, that a lot of inconveniences, frustrations, and difficulties accompany a pandemic. As we struggle through those things, we’d probably do well to remember in prayer those who are grieving the loss of loved ones, battling illness, and struggling to meet basic needs because of real financial struggles. Let’s also commit to pray for those making the decisions that tend to be so frustrating for us, remembering that it’s hard to be in a position where you’re likely to be criticized no matter what you do. Those prayers might just, in the end, produce the fruit of God’s Spirit in us and help us practice a little more understanding and patience. If you’d like to hear more about patience, you can access a recent sermon in our Living Into A Kingdom Normal series by clicking here.
Wonder:
· Why do you think patience is so important?
· What changes can be made in our days to cultivate more patience in our souls?
Bless:
· Affirm what everyone has shared.
· Pray that God might help us to grow in His Spirit that our lives might more and more be characterized by patience.
Pray together:
“Lord, we are grateful for your patience with us. You are our Creator and Redeemer, but often we live in ways that don’t line up with your best desires for our life. Still you love us, work in us, and use us in your kingdom. Help us to grow in the kind of patience that you show us. In the midst of the frustrating uncertainty of this pandemic, help us to express patience. When an unsettling sense of hurry begins to brew inside of us, we ask that you would replace it with trusting patience as we seek your face. In the patient Spirit of Jesus we pray, Amen.”
We hope that you will join us online Sunday at 9:30 AM in Spanish and at 11:00 AM in English. We also have various Zoom Bible Studies and Sunday School classes that you can plug into; call the church office at 956-968-9585 or message us on Facebook for more information about those. May God produce His patience in us!